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My hunny and I debating on having another child what do you think?

He has two sons from a relationship before we have one full time and get the other every other weekend,i have one son also from before... I want to share the joy of having a baby in a loving relationship but he wants to be selfish... What do I do give up??

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Asked by Mamaloves88 at 12:06 AM on Mar. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I dont think he is being selfish not to want another child.

    Answer by okmommy08 at 12:07 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Well it just depends, what are his reasons not to want another one.Df& I always disagree, we have 3, one each from a previous relationship& one together.They are 15,4& 2.We have custody of his 15yr old.She drives us crazy, teen years& our youngest drive us crazy, they are boys & financially we just cant afford one more.Maybe in 2-3yrs we might try but who knows.

    Answer by gabby06 at 12:11 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • He selfish in the way he doesnt want to give up any extra freedom he has

    Comment by Mamaloves88 (original poster) at 12:14 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • D d you talk to him about having another child before you were married? Other wise be patent. He may have other things on his mind. Find a time to talk to him about it. Let him know that this is important to you. good luck.

    Answer by Parka54 at 12:17 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • If he can treat all children equal and fairly....

    I can see no promblem .

    I would tell him, YOUR FREE TIME WILL BE LIMTED !!!!!!

    and make it firm..........♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 4:42 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Let's be serious. When there is a new child (or older) men lose very little if no freedom at all. They get their free time whenever they can while us women put the child(ren) first, the household and our man first.

    Answer by KoolMom617 at 11:14 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

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