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Should i tell him??

My ex husband just started seeing a girl I know. It doesn't bother me at all, I am actually glad he found someone to occupy his time so he leaves me alone! But I also know that she has a very bad reputation around town for beeing promiscuous (trying to find a nice word) and I have heard that she is also dating another guy right now aside from my ex. He thinks they are exclusive...I want to warn him so he doesn't get hurt later on but I worry that he will think I am just being jealous.....what do you ladies think? Tell him or leave it be?

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Asked by logansmommy711 at 6:01 PM on Mar. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Leave it be, he's a grown man and can make his own decisions.

    Answer by meooma at 6:03 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • mmmmm I would probably leave that alone. It's like telling someone another person is cheating - somehow the "teller" is always the person who gets blamed for something. He's a big boy, if he is smart he will figure it out and he's leaving you alone - right?

    Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 6:03 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • leave it be if you know about her he should also around town and sees her anyway

    Answer by letstalk747 at 6:04 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • i would leave it be.

    Answer by tnm786 at 6:04 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • I would leave it be.

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 6:05 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • just let him find out on his own. if you tell him he will think you are instigating. more than likely he already knows her reputation, even if you have solid proof just leave it alone.

    Answer by gothmama91 at 6:05 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Thanks ladies!

    Comment by logansmommy711 (original poster) at 6:07 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Tell him. OR HAVE SOMEONE ELSE TELL HIM. even though u may be over with the relationship etc..... u sound as though u care what happens as the mother of your child should. What if she ends up giving him something ajaxx cant take off??? Or b/c HE thinks HE'S the only one... that another fella doesn't want to attack him or beat him up. I wouldn't let him be played. NOT UNLESS I DISLIKED HIM AND DIDNT LIKE HIM AT ALL...LOL THEN

    Answer by kkbird at 6:08 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • I'd let it alone. He'd probably just think you're trying to sabotage his new relationship out of jealousy or something. lol

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 6:13 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • For me, it would depend on our relationship. If we were civil towards each other then I'd tell him even if he thought I was being jealous. If we didn't get along, I'd leave it alone.

    Answer by Alexias30 at 6:13 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

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