I have been married for 8 years and we have a 6 and 8 year old together. I am so sad we bought a house 3 years ago and now filed for bankruptcy and have to be out of our house by the end of may which has taken such a toll on me:( it doesnt seem to bother my dh not like me we found a house but it is so small we will be going from a 4 to a 3 bdrm house from 1 full and two half baths to 1 full bad and the bdrms and everything are smaller.If anyone has been through this how do you pick up and move on? I know i have to but how? All my family lives in mo. I live in pa. and i miss them dearly i am so torn i want to move home with my kids but i knowi cant w/out a fight with my hubby the kids are our lifes.it would be easier if my hubby would understand me and didnt go out every mon.wed and one weekend to play pool andcome home anywhere from midnight- 3 a.m. i can't deal w it anymore......and i being dumb? I told him and he says that he is not gonna change but i can't see taking the kids away from him and moving and a tiny bit of me can't let go!!! Please i willtake all the advice i can get!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:06 PM on Mar. 16, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by Rnurse at 7:28 PM on Mar. 16, 2011
Just remember that there are people who have less than you. There are people who do not have homes and have to move to homeless shelters. There are people who lose their families. Remember that you were lucky enough to find a house period. Now, go make that house a home. Plant flowers, paint it. Put up wallpaper if you want. Hang pictures. This is now your home. And remember, the economy is picking up. Hopefully you will be able to move into a bigger home later on.
Also, my DH keeps reminding me that we will eventually be on our own. Our kids will move out, eventually. We don't want to be stuck in a big house all alone.
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