She has been raised by her (step-father) since age 1-1/2, and until about a year ago had a very good, loving relationship. It is not "our secret" that she's not been told that my husband is not her bio. father, I figured it would come up sooner or later on it's own. But now I am almost afraid to tell her this information - as things between him and her are not good. Is it just hormones starting?? Help in St. Paul, MN, please.Answer Question
Answer by gwen20 at 7:50 PM on Mar. 16, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 8:02 PM on Mar. 16, 2011
Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 9:00 PM on Mar. 16, 2011
could be her age.
But in all honesty this is going to rip through her when she finds out... specially if she gets back on track. I would suggest going to a VERY good therapist (just you) and talk over different ways to let her know in the most loving way. BUT not when she is acting up... it will only fuel the fire. But I think the sooner the better... but with some guidance.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Mar. 17, 2011
Answer by frances693 at 1:15 PM on Mar. 28, 2011