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WWYD? Be proactive or feel sorry for self all night? adult content

Kids are w/ my parents. My husband and I haven't had any REAL alone time (or sex) in about 11mos. Tonight we were supposed to stay at a hotel (w/ fireplace and jacuzzi in suite) and do dinner, movie, and romance. It's 6:58pm and we should've been there hours ago. He wanted a "quick nap" around 2:45pm and I said no sweat... you nap I'll pack. ... He is refusing to wake up now. It's dark out, almost pointless in paying for a hotel. Plus I am so hurt/offended I am not sure what do even do now. Sitting here alone crying, listening to him snore. So... now what do I do?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:00 PM on Mar. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • I know the feeling. I would suggest trying the start sex with him, without him awake but I probably would not do it myself cause I'd be so mad. You could go to a movie anyway, leave him sleeping.

    Answer by bertie4 at 2:42 PM on Mar. 17, 2011

  • Kick him square in his ass and tell him to get up. Ya'll are going out. If he doesn't budge tell him you will enjoy the jacuzzi with another fella. :)

    Answer by texasgurl33 at 8:11 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • WOW dont know what to say but so sorry your hurt, I would be pissed!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by Lisa_Lynn at 8:16 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Go yourself and enjoy that jacuzzi. What a jerk. I'd be upset too.

    Answer by metalhealthmom at 8:22 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • wake him! Have sex at home. Or don't wake him and have sex with him my hubby have talked andhe likes that.

    Answer by mandyandthree at 8:21 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • i'd wake him up! no its not to late, go out have fun!

    Answer by juniebug11 at 8:25 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • tell him to get up or your going without him!!! what an ass!!!!

    Answer by michellesgirls2 at 8:57 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • Get pissed and get over it. If you decide to not to go, make your own romantic night at the house. Fill the bath with bubbles and candles. Order something that you wouldn't ordinarily do. You don't need an expensive hotel/dinner to have a romantic evening.


    Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:20 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • forget the hotel its too late. wake him up with some head or even sex. if nothing else atleast u get yours :) I know how u feel though I have that prob sometimes too.

    Answer by kadensmom04 at 9:44 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • How disappointing. . . HUGS to you. Tomorrow is a new day.

    Answer by zboys at 11:44 PM on Mar. 16, 2011

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