When is too much too much? I don't have anyone to talk to about the issues. Not even a counselor because in my region we actually have to pay $150 an hour or more for counseling and that's not possible for me to pay.
He nit picks at me. I have a few extra pounds (like 20 lbs). If you saw me you'd say I'm not "fat" I do have meat on my bones.
He constantly checks the toilet rim to see if there's any peee on it. My house is clean. I'n not going to stand by the toilet 24/7 with a rag to clean it every time someone uses the bathroom.
I have a few small scars. He picks at that.
I'm not working out of the home (yet) as I'm trying to promote products online as an affiliate.
He does not live with me. We see each other on weekends. He lives a little over an hour from me. We have talked about getting a place together but in the back of my mind I'm thinking it's not a good idea.
There's been problems with my son. He's 13 and got in trouble in school last week. He got suspended. Then since he was suspended my son went to his Dad's a few days early instead of waiting until when march break started. I didn't have a problem with DS going early.
The problem is with DS's father, his father's gf, and the grandparents saying things to DS to try and coax him to moving there with them. During the 8 days DS was at his dad's they said things to him to make him scared of me. (I did not ask my son anything about what went on down there. DS told me on his own) They want him to live with them. DS told me he was promised a nintendo DS, a cell phone, ps2 if he lives with them. That is bribery and is wrong.
My bf now has "thoughts popping up in his head" as to whether or not he even wants to be with me.
BF has his own set of problems with divorce, his 18 year old getting in trouble with the law, bf has huge debt, lives with his parents free of charge at the age of 47. So, what should he have to say about my issues?
This morning bf said he thought he heard my son in the shower. BF said "wonder why he's in the shower? He never got up and had a shower on his own before, he must have been "pleasuring himself and got sticky"
I couldn't believe bf said that! I said if my son wants to pleasure himself he can and it's none of bf's business. I asked bf why he made those comments and he said "oh it's not important anyway."
Well, it turned out my son wasn't even in the shower. He was in the living room. Sheesh.
In past relationships I broke up with men like this. This time I thought that instead of dumping him that I will speak my mind and try to work problems out.
Maybe I'm doing the wrong thing? I really wish I had someone to talk to.
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