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this is my second question me and my boyfriend had sex and i bleed the first time then we did it again and i didnt now hes scared hell kill the baby if we have sex?

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Asked by Expectingmom164 at 10:46 PM on Nov. 24, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • Your baby has alot of cushon it is prob. the swelling and your vein get closser to the surface.

    Answer by mom3898 at 10:48 PM on Nov. 24, 2008

  • Your baby will be fine if you have sex, unless the doctor says no.

    The bleeding that you had was probably him getting a little touchy with your cervix. You have so much extra blood flow right now that you will bleed easily
    (from everywhere - it won't be unusual to bleed again lightly after sex, or even at unexpected times to have nose bleeds, your gums bleed after brushing your teeth, etc.)

    Let him know that everything is OK, so long as it isn't heavy continuous blood flow, and if he doesn't believe you then take him with you to your next doctors appointment and have the doctor tell him! (thats what I had to do! lol)

    Answer by CarolynBarnett at 10:51 PM on Nov. 24, 2008

  • He can't hurt the baby. Your cervix is closed and the baby has plenty of cushion. If you're worried about the bleeding call your doctor.

    Answer by sarah3-CO at 10:52 PM on Nov. 24, 2008

  • Not to worry, your baby is well protected and cushioned. The only reason not to have sex is if the Dr. says no or it's uncomfortable to you. If you're really worried, talk to your Dr , that should help ease your mind.

    There are also some good posistions out there that make sex during pregnancy a lot easier.

    Answer by LisaAC at 11:05 PM on Nov. 24, 2008

  • Baby is absolutely fine. The blood is from capillaries in your uterus busting open (totally normal, and it will not put you into labor), and as for him hurting the baby...sorry, super-stud, but it can't be done!

    Your doctor will DEFINTELY tell you if it's not safe to have sex, so do it will you still can!

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 11:16 PM on Nov. 24, 2008

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