if your husband never gave you compliments but on fb you see that he gives them to others?
please do not bash me and tell me to leave him.
We have been married 10 yrs and he use to all the time and we get into fights over this. he says that he just feels i should know. or that he is so comfortable in our marriage that i should know.
Answer by pixie_trix at 5:46 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by S.Marsh at 5:48 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by meandrphoto at 5:50 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
It's extremely important to me, and a pivotal part of having a happy and healthy marriage, for my husband and I do actively show one another: how much we love each other, respect one another, admire, adore, desire, need, want..etc As much as we possible can.
Taking each other for granted and having the attitude that we should "just know these things" many years ago was extremely damaging to our marriage. We both felt resentful because we both felt that we were not loved, admired, adored, respected..etc because we both just took it for granted that the other just "knew". The reality was very different. Neither of us "just knew", and we were both hurt and resentful because we both felt that the other no longer felt those things..why, because we didn't show it to one another.
Answer by pixie_trix at 5:51 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by HappyEndings at 6:01 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by mom2mybabes at 5:56 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by debnich501960 at 10:02 PM on Mar. 18, 2011
Answer by Arretsmomma5 at 5:12 AM on Mar. 19, 2011
Answer by dusty1962 at 12:30 PM on Mar. 19, 2011
Answer by meooma at 5:45 PM on Mar. 18, 2011