She is 22 and has a 1 year old daughter.
She has decided to not give up partying, and goes out atleast 2 times a week ( actually 2 times a week is a slow week to her) ....
I also have a 23 year old bio. daughter who has 2 children and lives an ideal family life ( married, owns a home and does family activites, instead of going bar hopping ) ...
So step daughter constantly puts the blame on my husband and I , and my other daughter on why she isnt a good mother.... She constantly insults my other daughter saying that if she didnt have a husband she would be just like her ( which isnt true because she would still put her children first - it isnt her husband keeping her from partying, it is her morals) ....
She also uses the excuse that my husband and I love our grandaughter and so she is just giving us time with her ( she is with me pretty much 24/7 ... so that is a load of bull ) ...
BUT the worst excuse is..... WE RAISED HER THIS WAY ....yeah, that is right, she said that her being a bad mom is our fault because that is how we raised her...( which should mean our other children would be this way too then right) ...
I am just so tired of her attitude !!! What would you do ?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:34 PM on Mar. 19, 2011 in Parenting Debate
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