I am 34wks preg and extremely insecure. I have always been happy with my weight even after my first pregnancy but now I have gained a lot of weight and I'm scared I won't be able to drop it as quickly as the first time. I worry constantly about my bf talking to other girls. The other day and ex of his txtd him and he talked to her some, It made me upset but I told him I didn't mind if he talked to her because she was trying to be nice and was wanting to buy our baby a gift (which made me upset for some reason, not sure why, maybe preg hormones?) I don't know her, never met her. Anyways, I said he could talk to her because I would rather know he is talking to her than him do it behind my back and me find out or something. I keep having dreams about him talking to other girls, and I had one last night, when I woke up this morning his cell was going off and I looked at it because we share it and that's the only way my mom has to contact me, then I seen that he had been talking to that girl again yesterday evening. They were talking about how they hoped our son didn't end up having ADD. She is stupid, my bf does not have ADD she just puts this shit in his head! It made me angry that they were talking about my baby for some reason. And after I had one of those dreams last night I just got really upset, I confronted my bf about it and he said he thought I said I was ok with him talking to her, which I did so that is my fault :( but then I tried to expain why it bothered me, because I am insecure and stuff right now, and he got really angry. He got so mad that he started calling me names and yelling. I don't understand why he would get so mad. He said he liked talking to her and as far as I know I don't think he is planning on stopping. I don't know if I'm just being hormonal or if this is really something I should be upset about :( I know I told him he could talk to her and I know it was wrong of me to get upset after I said that but if he really loved me wouldn't he understand? When I try talking to him at work he usually doesn't respond, so why would he be able to txt her and not me?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Mar. 19, 2011 in Relationships
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