Whatever time, I might remind her that drinking and driving is absolutely forbidden, even if it means calling you to pick her up. Also, let her know that if her driver starts to drink, she should call you for a safe ride home.
Even if she tells you the party is drug and alcohol free, you can usually safely assume that it is not, so it is always worth a safety reminder.
Also, she should not drink anything, alcoholic or not, unless it is from a sealed container that she opens herself and does not let out of her sight. . . you might be able to trust your daughter, but you can't everyone who might be there.
at 9:03 PM on Mar. 19, 2011