And I was thinking about being a little stepford wifey. Like cook & clean & generally be nicer to my spouse. I know I should have been being better from the beginning but it has been hard, that is another story. Anyways my question is if I start to improve myself, will my dh respond to this? Will he be happier and love me a little more?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Mar. 20, 2011 in Relationships
Oh honey let me tell you, anything and everything hurtful that can be done to hurt a spouse, I've done to mine. And it is hard. Definitely. Loving words and doing things to improve the relationship definitely gets a response. When my hub and I decided to "grow up" and make our relationship a loving, respectful, and stable one, it happened overnight. One day we were mean to each other, the next day I was cooking and cleaning and really trying to put forth an effort. So did he. The more I did, the more he responded, the more he appreciated it. Yes, he is definitely happier. Love me more? I'm not sure. He SHOWS his love a lot more since I no longer throw it right back in his face.
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