i had this terrible headache, and for some reason i ended vomit in the bathroom, my husband didnt care at all and keep playing xbox... when we went to bed, i told him that i felt sick and was really upset why didnt even asked if i was ok.. then he said... why you always want to argue??.. and then he pulled my hair really hard and left and he went to sleep in the living room... when we argue in other ocassions he ended calling me stupid or pushing me away but this was the first time he fisically hurts me.. what should I do?.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Jul. 9, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by BUSYMAMA5 at 2:21 PM on Jul. 9, 2008
Answer by luvnmy3kid at 2:32 PM on Jul. 9, 2008
Physically touching you in ways that are meant to hurt you, or cause you pain; is NOT okay behavior. This should stop immediately.
Putting that aside, is there any truth in what he is saying to you? (Why do you always want to argue?) Do you always argue everything and anything? If you are, I would say "Pick your battles"..... Save the argument for something that is worth the fight (physically hurting you). Women put a lot of emotion behind everything that we say and do. For us we want to we pampered and swept off our feet. But it isn't like that for men, and they aren't made that way. He isn't ever going to be in-tune to your every single need, wants or feelings.
"Men marry in the hopes you'll never change; Women marry in the hopes of being able to change them"... Remember this, you are either going to have to except all of him, or nothing at all. You don't get just bits and pieces.
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