The biological father has chosen to exempt himself outta his first born's life but I want him to pay child-support & financially be there for him... I filled for Child-Support & am now afraid of his retaliation since he wasn't there they day he was born because he was screaming & yelling at me while in labor...so he went to his newly pregnant girlfriend up in Maine & didn't even care about his first born son being born back in mass...
I know that he's made it clear to everyone on bad days that this is not his son but when something goes wrong up in Maine with his fairy tale life Connor's his...I don't understand how you can create a handsome lil guy & then walk outta his life just like that...& I am deathly afraid that with filling for DOR he's gonna come threw with some of his threats...
DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?!?!?!
Please help...we created a handsome lil boy outta the love we once shared but towards the end of the pregnancy after he asked me to marry him he changed his mind dated a another girl then cheated on her with me & another girl...
I feel that in my heart I did the right thing
Answer by vbruno at 11:06 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Answer by AnuMeha at 11:06 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Answer by TiffanieK at 11:07 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Answer by judimary at 11:13 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Answer by minnesotanice at 11:36 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Depending on your state laws he could sign off on his parental rights and still have to pay child support. No matter what he should have to pay child support, just because he chooses not to be in his son's life does not mean he can choose not to support him. Is he on your son's birth certificate as the father? If the answer is yes, then he is responsible. Sure he may want visitation rights down the road and you can prepare to handle that with a parenting plan, if it comes to that. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong!
Answer by sarchasmicangel at 11:57 PM on Mar. 20, 2011
Answer by amessageofhope at 12:53 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
ok the thing is if he paying for this child then i think he should have rights to see this child or at least see photos of this child ever year
i know he refussing to see this kid as hisbut what if he changes his mind or ask for a dna test then want to see him
if your ok with that then yes got fore it but if you do not want him back in your child life i go for terminating his rights
Answer by feralkitten at 6:36 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
Answer by lovingmy4babies at 8:13 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
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