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Do CM actually think by being rude think its right or makes them look good??

not being rude just thinking about some CM that get hurtful comments or have bad things said to them.

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anayasmommy21

Asked by anayasmommy21 at 4:03 AM on Mar. 21, 2011 in About CafeMom

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  • I think sometimes when people feel strongly about something, they can get fierce.  I also think that people are small.  They let themselves get out of control and don't care who they hurt by it.  I forever have an anonymous who wants to argue with me.  I brush it off, state my opinion, leave it alone.  Blows off steam. 

    MrsHouston47302

    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 4:05 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • i AGREE with you some ppl just belittle themselves by saying hurtful things and being rude...instead of being grown about things they just act childish. This is CM not some lil kid site to sit there and act childish..am i wrong CAFEMOMS??
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 4:07 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • No, your absolutely right!

    MrsHouston47302

    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 4:08 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Ya know i have wondered the same thing. I stopped looking for support because of some bashing. The truth is sometimes people can just be insensitive. I have noticed these same people will often answer anonymously. But with that all being said the good comes with the bad.

    rosetoes

    Answer by rosetoes at 4:37 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Unless the rude comments are from your sister or a close friend, why do they bother you? These women are total strangers, stop giving them so much power over you
    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 5:37 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • right!!
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 5:39 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Having the audacity to disagree with someone is not the same as being rude, but far too many people don't bother with a distinction. Very much the mommy who cried wolf around here to be taken seriously when someone complains. For every truly rude comment I've seen, there are dozens of people complaining because they didn't get the exact answer they wanted and calling it rude instead.
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 7:39 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • You just have to learn to ignore the rude ones.
    tiddliwinks

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 9:09 AM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • dont pay any attention to the ruede people they try to bring you down because they are down just pay attention to the ones that have positive responses. Have a great day!
    miranda2011

    Answer by miranda2011 at 1:17 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • @MIRANDA thanks girl and yet i dont let anyone bring me down i can careless what they think if they are unhappy not my problem but there is not need for them to take out there unhappiness or whatever is going on in there life to others just RUDE but then again so many childish ppl out there
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 2:30 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

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