Hi , I have a baby boy , who is now 2 . The father wanted nothing to do with him disowned him since he was born and used to beat me and yell and scream at me . He was a bad drunk but yet it was always my fault. I have remarried and has had another beautiful child . My current husband has been a great father to our son and our daughter. he is his only father he has known. Any who this guy , He has seen our son once acted like he like it and enjoyed it but has forgotten him like its nothing since i have no longer make the first move to make things happen . It hurts me and i dont know why . I just want the best for my family, but how do i do that when it still scares me to truly fall in love with my wonderful husband. How can i let go and just forgive the evilness my ex did to my son and i ? So i can move on inside and out! !! ... so we can move on together and i dont feel left behind?!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Mar. 21, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by CraftingMama at 10:34 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
Oh honey, its going to be hard. This man isnt your ex. Just remember he is a completely different man that is here to stay. He put a ring on your finger and is taking care of your son as if he is his. You have a beautiful daughter together now. Its time to forget about the past. I would try to make this other man be in your son's life or yours... Let that part of your life go. Its better for you and your son. You dont want someone who is there one day but not the next for your son. He needs consistency. You are loved by your husband. He wants to be there for you and your family. It might take awhile to truly let him in MORE, but I think you are on the right track. Best of luck.
Answer by kiansmom0423 at 10:38 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
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