My daughter wont talk to me , her best friend died on Friday and she will not say anything to me about him . She's been crying since Friday night when it happen she had just got off the phone with him minutes before it happen ... He was driving down the road and hit a patch of ice and the car was tossed over a bridge . 2 boys died that night and one got out while the car sank in the river ! today is the wake and she is going but she still will not talk to me I'll I can do is hold her while she cries I guess that's all I can do until shes ready to talk .... what scars me even more is Earlier that night my daughter was in his car, omg is all I can keep saying to my self (what if) she was in that car when it happen I've been crying also sorry I need to vent to someone ! I just don;t know what to do to help my poor 13 year old daughter !
Answer by chris1975 at 9:01 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
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Answer by tiddliwinks at 10:55 AM on Mar. 21, 2011
I lost my best friend in high school, to falling asleep at the wheel. The night he died he came to see me at work. He brought his girl friend. Because she was with him, I didn't hug him goodbye like usual. When I found out he was dead, I was devastated. I had dreams that I couldn't go to him, I could physically feel chains holding me down from going to him. It hurts to lose someone you are close to, especially that young. I am crying writing this and that was back in 1998. It will take time for her to talk, just tell her you are there for her when she is ready.
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