I said No . here is my reasons. and ended it with him for the following.
*one I realized we have very different parenting styles he lets his daughter do what ever she wants. no rules or guidelines.
*his kid is one of the major reason I ended it. she was not a nice kid and I am not the only person who saw this.
* I felt taken advantage of. example they he and his two kids would come over at noon and be at my house at my home until midnight. I would have to feed them all he never offered to buy food. and he would take a nap and I would have to take care of the kids. (sick and all)
* we had only been part of each others lives for less then 4 months.
He asked me when we ended our "friendship" if the girls could still pay (they are the same age)?
* told him no then.
* told him it takes to much out of me to have a play date(being sick)
*told him we just ended it I do not think it would be a good idea
He called yesterday to ask me did you think about what I asked about the girls?
I told him no.. again . he asked me like he did not know why.. He seemed to not understand a word I said. As we hung up I heard him tell his kid sorry she can't play she is sick. (what my kid is not sick!!!, try being honest with your kid buddy )
We had another conversation on instant messenger.
" you are mad.thats why you dont want them to play..
ahhhh you know i was not mad until he keep asking the same thing...
he said" I can drop off and pick up his kid or mine if I don't want to hang out with him" (WTH).
I had to be really firm with him in the instant message. somehow I have a feeling he will call again and ask again. Last time I checked no is not. not really sure how to handle this one.
the girls are 6 and 7 and I did ask my dd and she said NO I don't want to play with her anymore. I told him this and he asumes I am saying no not her.
I counted how many times the kids would play.. it was about 5 times total.. he brought them over really soon after meeting me.
his kid is the kind who gets mad if she does not get way. will cry and hit if necessary. my dd told her friends dont hit friends!
The kids did not play well together or even together. just in the same house
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