Dh is Bi. I knew this from the get go. I am as well. I have NEVER been with a woman in my life, but have fantasized about it. Dh on the other hand says he has never had sex with a man, but he has given oral, and masterbated someone.
Dh's biggest fantasy is to have another man in our bedroom. So he can experience being with a man and fulfiling his fantasy... And also sharing his first time with me.
Ill admit it.. I get off to watching HIS reaction when we are watching gay porn (consists of male, male, female, with male interaction with one another & female joining in) HOWEVER, the thought of HIM doing it.. puts me on edge.
What if I DO give him the green light? Will he just want to do it more? Its only supposed to be a one night thing.. and so he could fulfill his fantasy... but what if he gets addicted or something? Leaves me for another man?? Then what? I fear I will get VERY insecure and jealous. He says he probably wouldnt do it.. because he says the thought gets him off being able to share me, but he wouldnt let it happen bc he is too jealous, and wouldnt want another man touching me.
I believe him about the jealousy part, but I know its something he wants to do, he tells me all the time.. Its a bit annoying... I dunno what to do... Give in and live with regret? Or give in and realize, I just let him fulfill his fantasy, and feel good about it??
My gut is telling me one thing... and I think I know its the truth..
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