I am single after being with my high school lover after 10 yrs. He was a broke uninspiring man with no goals and at 30 now he has not accomplished anything, has no job, no car and no money and is content. We do have a child together that is 3. I am fortuate to have my degree, a good job, nice home and drive a nice car. At this point in my life ( i know I am sitill young) I will not settle. This guy approached me the other day in a car pre 2000. I couldnt help but pass.. I drive a nice 2010 car and to talk to me you have better than me. Superficial.. yes, I can admit that but am I wrong?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:22 PM on Mar. 21, 2011 in Relationships
You are never wrong to want the best, never! The best is waiting for you baby doll.
Answer by rosetoes at 8:24 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
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Answer by HistoryMamaX3 at 8:28 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 8:28 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
I do not think that you are being superficial. You are being CAREFUL and hey, there are some nice college professors out there driving 2000 cars but...chances are... Anyway, You have a child to think about . Water seeks it's own level as they say and you desire someone with similar interests and the of professionalism which you worked hard to obtain. Thank you for being mature and thinking things out. Take a look at some of the questions about deadbeat guy on this site and you will have your confirmation that waiting for the right thing is better.
Answer by notjustmom213 at 8:33 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
Answer by PrettyBaby24 at 8:38 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
just what if he lent his new car to lets say his dad? maybe you just let go a great catch.. here is the thing is it is great to have standards but realistic ones. I have a good friend who has list of them and he is not in his mid 40's and single. my point just know that saying he has a job more important the the car he might drive ... good luck in love
Answer by MominCa at 8:42 PM on Mar. 21, 2011
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 8:54 PM on Mar. 21, 2011