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Would you add her to your FB?

My husband has an Aunt that is my age. She married my husband's favorite uncle. He is 18 years older than her. Not really pertinent, just more info for you. Since they got married they have had two children, then same ages as our younger kids, 4 and 3. The wife has been very rude to me on several occasions and I just don't like her. She was my friend on FB before she started being so rude, once the rudeness got out of hand I unfriended her.
I just don't need to see her posts or to get mad when she comments some crappy response. Not a big deal. Several months later, when I think she realized I unfriended her, she unfriended my husband. No love lost, on my husband's part.
Now all of a sudden she is trying to friend me again. WTH? She is a bitch, I have no interest in seeing her or speaking to her, but I remain civil when we have to see them. I just don't want to cause conflict by not accepting her invite.
Would you refriend her or not?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Mar. 21, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (22)
  • Hell no!

    Answer by scottshoney at 11:03 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • No

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:04 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • it's facebook .. grow up

    Answer by kaylan010 at 11:04 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Nope, it's YOUR facebook page and you can do what you want.

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 11:05 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • double hellls NO..!!! Do not do it .. it will only end up in more resentment.

    Answer by staciepi at 11:06 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • If she's not a "friend" or someone who is on friendly terms, don't put her on your friends list.

    Answer by Renee3K at 11:06 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Can't you just add her to be civil and then block her so she can't see your posts??

    Answer by skittles1108 at 11:07 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • I wouldn't accept her request. If she calls you out on it, I'd ask her how it feels when someone is rude. Leave it at that.

    Answer by michelle121003 at 11:08 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • Nope deny her!

    Answer by momto4girzls at 11:10 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

  • If you have to ask total strangers about this, that should tell you she is not a friend.

    Answer by dullscissors at 11:16 PM on Mar. 21, 2011

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