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Have a SO but feeling like a single mommy>?

i have my SO but im feeling like i do everything alone..and ugh i dont know what to do anymore....ughhh..help someone advice.

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anayasmommy21

Asked by anayasmommy21 at 1:46 AM on Mar. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I feel the same way and now just want to LEAVE...i am tired of doing it and him acting like I don'tdo enough!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • @anonymous msg me i would like to vent to someone...im so confused and do not kno wat to do...i would appreciate it..thanks..
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 1:52 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • totally understand - we've had plenty of arguments over the past 20 years about this.
    tortkey

    Answer by tortkey at 2:02 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • very hard stressful, sad, depressed, etc but i stay strong for my daughter who needs me..
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 2:06 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • If it was me. I would just leave since you are already doing it alone. Unless you need the financial support then atleast he is doing something...
    Hatsumomo

    Answer by Hatsumomo at 2:27 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • no comment on that one..
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 2:28 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • Totally relate! We are in something of a 'break' mode, but he's still around, but its like he doesn't do half of the stuff he used to do! & what makes it so bad is I'm 35 wks pregnant! He used to cook & clean help out with the kids, but he rarely does any of that now... I wouldn't care if I wasn't so huge, cause I do all of that better than him anyway!
    LUVmyBOYZ615

    Answer by LUVmyBOYZ615 at 2:56 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • @LUVMYBOYZ
    yesss im soo depresssed stressed everything idk wut to do ..its so hard..but i can do it with or without him..
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 3:01 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • I understand how you feel as a matter of fact he does nothing and he talks about how we all do nothing.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:53 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • ha they got some nerve...just because they help create a child dont mean the actually do for the child creating and doing is 2 TOTALLY different things ....ugh men so many dead beat fathers out there its pathetic...takes more than making babys to be an actual father/daddy...
    anayasmommy21

    Comment by anayasmommy21 (original poster) at 5:57 AM on Mar. 22, 2011

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