How should I tell him I found a site for swingers and became a member? I love him, but the spark has left the bedroom. I am just exploring ways to bring the spark back. After many failed attempts, this has become another option. I joined the site as a "couple", and would not have sex with anyone without him knowing about it. I just don't know how to tell him without him getting upset or feeling hurt.
Please, I need advice, not bashing, if anyone can help.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:50 AM on Mar. 22, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by vbruno at 8:52 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by jewjewbee at 8:53 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
you have HUGE ISSUES in your marriage and you should deal with those and not be so hung up on your sex life. If this is something he isnt into then It was horribly selfish and there is no way to tell him with out ruining your marriage further. You should quit the club before he finds out and deal with the REAL problems in your marriage.
A marriage is SOOOOO much more than just sex.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:54 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by tiddliwinks at 8:54 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by JenzAmomOf2 at 8:54 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
You might want to watch some of Dr. Berman's shows and/or look at a couple of her books in a good book store. Do it together. She is really helpful to couples. GL
Answer by elizabr at 8:57 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 9:10 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by lovingmy4babies at 9:17 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by Fistandantalus at 9:30 AM on Mar. 22, 2011
Answer by jmgblair10 at 9:33 AM on Mar. 22, 2011