I see a lot of posts where women are upset that their man has female friend.
why? if they aren't interested in each other, then what's the issue?
Most of my fiends are guys. I've been that way since I can remember, I grew up in a neighborhood with guys and that is how I am most comfortable.
so no, I am not out to snag myself someone Else's man.
I've never had a guy pal make a move for me either.
So why am I not eager to make friends with the wife?
in my experience, when you befriend the spouse of a friend it splits loyalties. The one case in college where I befriended the girlfriend it became very difficult. If she had a fight with the boyfriend she'd flip if I spoke to him. Assuming that I was to be on 'her side' because she was the woman.
When I had no intention of taking any side.
and they really don't like it if you agree with their guy when they are mad at him.
If a guy wants to cheat, then he can find someone to cheat with just about anywhere, just because a guy if friends with a female does not mean there is a affair going on.
I'm not the one hitting on your man, I'm the one who gives him advice about your birthday present, on how to be a better husband when he feels he's lacking, and more times than I care to admit, I've been the one to convince the husband that the cutie he's sneaking around with is not worth ruining his marriage over.
I'm not your enemy just because I'm your husband's friend.
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