My Husband is Bi. I knew this. I didnt really have a problem at first, but now, Im not so sure. Last night we were getting intimate.. and well we were watching bi porn (two males and a female) Well he has a thing for black men. No biggie. Well the porn was about a girl cheating on her boyfriend with a black man, and the boyfriend catching them in the act. Well the GF forces her BF to suck the black mans private. And while he was doing so.. my husband got so off, it disturbed me. It completely turned me off.
My husband noticed I wasnt into it anymore, and he turned off the movie. I told him that I have accepted that he is bi, but Im not sure if he is confused about being gay, or actually bi. He gets more turned on by men than women. He threw back at me that I dont like to see men naked. ITS TRUE. Guys pee pee's arent the sexiest thing in the world ladies.
I told him straight men like WOMEN not men. Straight men get off by seeing a woman, not a muscular man giving another man oral. I told him that he has to excuse me for my reaction, that I am STILL getting used to the fact that he is bi.
He confuses me. Im not sure if he is straight up gay, or Bi.- He says he just likes to fantasize, But I told him normal people, sure they have fantasies, but they dont try to"live it out" everytime they have sex with their spouse... right??
If I never get used to this... Im not sure we will last.
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