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I've got a friend who proudly states that she was a virgin when she got married. From what she tells me, she was, technically.

She had lots of oral sex and did other things but not actual intercourse.

I say that oral sex is still sex, so in her case I call her a webster's dictionary virgin.
and that's fine, it was her choice.

any opinions?

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ItsMe89

Asked by ItsMe89 at 1:17 PM on Mar. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (19)
  • unless a penis entered her vagina,she was a virgin
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:19 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • 'unless a penis entered her vagina,she was a virgin'
    that's what I mean, a virgin by strict definition. I think it's a gray area when you have other kinds of sex.
    ItsMe89

    Comment by ItsMe89 (original poster) at 1:21 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • i had a friend who did everything but pop the cherry. her bf even stuck one of those tooth brush holders up in her and she still said she was a virgin. I dunoo. its a grey area. technically i lost my virginity before her, but she did WAAAAY more stuff than I did before she lost hers
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • Oral sex is still sex...
    couzie139

    Answer by couzie139 at 1:25 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • no intercourse ever = virgin. penetration = not a virgin.

    oral sex counts as ORAL sex. she may have had oral sex before but if there was never any penetration she is still a virgin.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:27 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • you cant say "ive never had sex, but ive given a blowjob so im not a virgin" doesn't really make sense LOL but oral sex DOES count as being "sexually active" because oral sex is a sexual act.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:31 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • According to former Pres Clinton he "did not have sex "as defined" with that woman. And in the eyes of the court, he didnt, but a blow job is still sex in my book. She DID partake of carnal pleasure with a man, a man DID know her carnally so I dont think she's a virgin in my book.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 1:36 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • So lesbians never have sex?
    Dr.Donna

    Answer by Dr.Donna at 1:41 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • "So lesbians never have sex?"
    VERY good point!!!!!!!!
    ItsMe89

    Comment by ItsMe89 (original poster) at 1:43 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • still sex
    kathy067j

    Answer by kathy067j at 1:52 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

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