out of curiosity - in your opinion - does a woman who married a man who abandoned his child make her that child's stepmother? long story short, ex left us when i was pregnant, came around a handful of times before our daughter turned 1, left again, saw her once when she was 3, and hasn't seen or talked to her since. she will be 5 in October.
i have had such turbulence dealing with this scorpion woman. she got with him when i was still pregnant. then when he stopped coming around when she was 1, they both used to harass me. calling and texting all hours of the night, he actually had the audacity to say i didn't deserve to be her mother, SHE did. and she swore up and down she worked for social services, yet they met working together at Boston Market? what's a woman with a college degree doing working there?
since the day my child was born ive heard nothing but threat after threat that they have 2, 3, a zillion lawyers who will be suing me for custody. this letter im supposed to be expecting in the mail is about 4 and a half years late.
ive put as much effort as i could into having him be a part of her life. but it came down to he just didn't want to.
this bitch decided to make it personal when last year she called my daughter a "bastard child" and that my other children (mine and DH's children) are "reject children". she didn't want her daughter (her and my ex had a baby last year - having the balls to give her my child's name as a middle name) around me and my reject children. all kinds of fucked up shit.
so i am curious, how many of you have to deal with psychotic sociopath women like this who get some crazy idea in their head that they have some kind of right to your child? now under different circumstances, had he been around consistently and she didn't come off as a cunt, i would have respect for her as a stepmom. but when you personally insult my children, all bets are off and you are pretty much dead to me.
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