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Definition of virginity adult content

Seems like I see all kinds of posts and hear of this topic all the time.
When a penis enters the vagina, you are no longer a virgin.

Yes, the hymen does often break the first time you have sex, but that does not define virginity at all.

any questions?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:43 PM on Mar. 22, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • LOL.
    jenn4443

    Answer by jenn4443 at 5:43 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • LOL!!!!
    jmgblair10

    Answer by jmgblair10 at 5:47 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • what if it's just the tip? what if he doesn't ejaculate?
    hibbingmom

    Answer by hibbingmom at 5:49 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • lmao!
    mamawilbur

    Answer by mamawilbur at 5:53 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • "what if it's just the tip? what if he doesn't ejaculate? "
    if he's in, then he's in. Ejaculation has nothing to do with it either.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:55 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • this post isn't meant to hurt feelings, I just wanted to clarify.
    Don't feel bad if you didn't know, I've got a SIL that thinks that you can't get STDs from oral sex or anal sex. This is a woman with her Master's degree.

    But then I doubt if she had much sex ed in school. I had more than one teacher that made sure we understood these things fully!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:59 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • In my opinion if a man has known your carnally, that means you gave him oral sex or butt sex or he's felt you up and youve made out, your NOT a virgin anymore. It has nothing to do with penis insertion into the vagina in my opinion.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 6:05 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

  • 'It has nothing to do with penis insertion into the vagina in my opinion. '

    I don't think the definition of sexual activity is a black and white issue, I laugh at women who did everything but, then just because they were a virgin by definition they think it's the same as being as pure as fallen snow.

    if a penis has never entered your vagina, then you are a virgin by definition. though if you've done other things that are sexual, you've participated in sexual activity, but unless a penis has entered your vagina then you are a virgin.

    what gets me is when I hear people making claims like 'she lost her virginity while riding a horse'
    come on! where to people get these idea from?
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:12 PM on Mar. 22, 2011

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