I KNOW that I'm being selfish and probably a little bit of a bitch too but....okay DH works 2 jobs and so obviously sleeps most of the rest of the time....I literally only get ONE night with him a week....so yeah...I want to spend that night WITH him. Shoot me.
The thing is....yesterday...the ONE night I get with him...he went to his mothers (whom I'm not a great fan of) to pick up our daughter who had spent the weekend over there...he ends up falling asleep over there in front of the TV waiting for his mama to get Kelley ready...who by the way, already knew Rich was coming to get her at 3:30 when he got off work so why Kelley wasnt ready to go when he got there is beyond me.....so anyways..around 6 I start calling him trying to see when he's going to get home..remember this is my ONE night with him....but when Rich is sleep he might as well be dead and waking him up by calling him is absolutly impossible...so I start calling his mother....no answer...finally at 9 at night she calls me with the perkiest voice you can imagine to let me know that Rich is there but that he's sleep....she lets me talk to my daughter then gets back on the phone...."Oh did you want me to wake him up?" yes please.
I didnt say anything...it didnt even really upset me...I KNOW that he needs to spend time with his family.....but today guess where he is...he's over there again. He's decided to eat dinner over there....now I'm upset. Sorry, yes I know I'm a selfish bitch but I want him to come home....he was over there ALL FREAKING DAY yesterday. Today he needs to bring his ass home. Do I say any of this to him? No because I don't want to sound like I'm trying to come between him and his mama....but damn.
How do I stop being like this???? Why can't I just say "Okay Monique, you know he needs to spend time with his mother so just suck it up"? It's just that I get SO LITTLE time with him! Please any advice....that is actually in the form of advice and not just being mean to me.....as you can see I already feel like I'm being a selfish bitch lol
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