Hubby and I have been married for 12years now . have had our ups and downs. We just went through an affair. We cme past it all and tried to start over. About a month and a half ago I went through his phone and sent a text using a number in the "recent history", because he deleted all his messeges. Even all from me that day...it seemed strange to me. Anyway I sent a messsage saying "what r u up 2"...The reply was "sitting here in the bed thinking of you" AW SHIT was my very thought! So after a few more text acting like him, I woke his ass up the hard way with hot water to the face. He woke up in a daze like WTF so I told him. He denided it, so I read the text back to him, then told her it was me the whole time. She waited a long time to reply, then it was hey you long time no hear...WTF!!! I called her, he said they had only talked for a couple of weeks, it took her a long, long time to tell me how long! A LIE!!! So the next day he get his moms phone and uses it, I found it in his pocket. lol...he then to me they had been talking for over a year again! OH helll no!! I called her and said " you care nothing for our family and he will do the same to you, im his wife so what do u expect! then hung up." I went to his moms and gave her her phone and told her, she was mad, so called but ,I already know.! Since then he has been so angry almost hating me, well I feel he does hate me! He always tells me all bad things and never anything good. Its a shame I hear better things from men off the street! IDK what to do...I ended it but the love is there still, hes never going to change, I know I can find better,...What would you do?
Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 9:59 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by Liamsmom09 at 9:08 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by virgo550 at 9:47 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by Belinda7560 at 9:14 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
agree with liam..you should be totally done with him..so what he's mad oh well he will get over it..now he got just what he wanted but i bet for him its no fun now..u continue 2 take care of your kids and get your happy back..its a thin line between love n hate..
Answer by cammay at 9:19 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by Leeli12410 at 9:19 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by MrsJStearns at 10:06 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by kimigogo at 9:35 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by AWomansMind at 10:10 AM on Mar. 23, 2011
Answer by eluc at 10:45 AM on Mar. 23, 2011