My daughters father has visitation. He never shows up. He randomly decided to pick her up from school on friday and kept her until sunday and brought her late and said he can bring her back whenever he wants. he has visiation tuesday/thurs and every other fri-sun. he has never exercised his rights. he picked her up from school on friday without me knowing and I couldnt get in contact with them until 6pm. he wouldnt tell me where they were. I did hear my 3yrs old voice until late sunday when I saw her. During that time he would call to torment me and say how does it feel to be without her. I have never kept my daughter from him. he knows where I live and where she goes to school. I willingly gave him thatinformation. I let him in my house to see her. Well the cops say he isnt in violation of anything. I went to court to file contempt because he brought her late and alos file for modificattion because he doesnt show up so I wanted to lessen it. But the basically said I am stupid to do that. They said how are you going to say contempy but then also modify. I said I want contemplt because he brought her late and I want to modify because he doesnt show up and I cant sit and wait all the time.
I have no one to help me. besides all that he has mental health issues.
wen to a meeting at my daughters school this morning and no one saw when she left and she want even signed out. when I got there friday they assumed she was there and I signed the sheet went looking for her and she wasnt there. today her teachers told me they walked her to afterschool, but then the after school teachers never saw her.
but with all this there is nothing I can do. I wrote a note stating not to release her to anyone other than me. but if he randomly decides to show to torment me and I refuse I would be in contempt. the law is on his side always!
when i was reunited with my daughter she kept saying sorry mommy, sorry mommy I couldnt find you. she told me she kept taking her things to go and daddy kept getting mad saying no going home.
I have no idea what my daughter went through but still nothing I can do.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:09 AM on Mar. 23, 2011 in General Parenting
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