Sit down and explain to him how important it is to you...look at your budget and see where another child would put you. If now is not the right time for your own biological child, maybe down the road when your financial situation gets better you can adopt. There are many children that need loving families. Money is the #1 reason for divorce, so that is a major decision to make. You don't want to put a strain on your current relationship/family.
at 1:48 AM on Nov. 26, 2008