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Urrrr...why do you do that???

omg!!! am i the only person that wonder why you can ask for advice on here but only four or five people in the group post it might been 100 people who viewed your question but didn't even try to help..isn't this what this for to try to help other ladies with advice....

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Asked by mztxdelta at 5:01 PM on Mar. 23, 2011 in About CafeMom

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  • Just because I read a post does not mean that I have information that will be useful. I won't know if I can help until I read the post.

    Answer by Rosehawk at 5:02 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • Do you really want more answers that are either bad advice or the same as other responses?

    Answer by SWasson at 5:03 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • A lot of times people will have already responded with what I would have said, so I vote them up and move on. No point in retyping what somebody already posted.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:03 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • sometimes I don't post because I have a negative view on something being posted and I just feel like anything I post might be viewed as antagonistic, so I don't post because the person is looking for support and I can't add anything to help them - so I move on. I typically try to stay away from religion or politics but I post a lot about relationships - I'm sure every has their "favored" subjects. Just a thought.

    Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 5:04 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • some CF may not have advice or answers for you so they probably would rather not try and answer...

    Answer by anayasmommy21 at 5:04 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • I didn't realize you could still see the view count on posts in groups.

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 5:04 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • People generally won't answer unless they can offer some advice, which I think is a good thing. I'd rather see 4 good replies (or heck, even 1) than a bunch of "IDKs" or something like that, but that's just me personally. Few replies doesn't mean no one cares, it just means that only a few people can actually offer some advice or whatever. Or at least that's been my experience.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 5:06 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • @ tiddliwinks..yes ma'am you can...and to the other ladies you are all right..sorry for the complaint.just having one of those days ..where you wanna cry and you really don't even know why?

    Comment by mztxdelta (original poster) at 5:07 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • I'm not going to respond when the same answer has already been post 10 times. I also don't respond when I don't have anything nice to say. I do vote up responses that I agree with though.

    Answer by slw123 at 5:07 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

  • I have noticed that too.

    Answer by jenn4443 at 5:07 PM on Mar. 23, 2011

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