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Is there anything you should have told your dh before you got married that you didn't?

IS there anything you hide from your partner or children?


Asked by JackieGirl007 at 12:25 AM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • and i probably wont tell my son about this (maybe when he gets older) but i actually thought about giving him up for adoption when i was pregnant with him only because i was 17 and scared but now im glad i didnt he is my life

    Answer by goobersmom713 at 7:42 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • There is stuff that he didn't know before we got married that I probably should have told him, but my life has been pretty traumatic as it is. It's not something you can sit down and explain in one day or even 6 months to someone. It takes a LOT of time. And there are things that I haven't told him that will still probably take me a year or two to go into. He has always been open and let me come to him when I am ready sort of things, and the things I am mentioning maybe 1-2 people at MOST know about.

    My ex husband used to throw it in my face when we would fight, and when I tried to explain some of my childhood or life before my ex they were too overwhelmed, so I've learned to go very, very slow with people when talking about my life. Slow and steady wins the race I suppose.

    Answer by Razelda at 12:28 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Nope, not a thing. I live my life as an open book. I really can't think of anything my husband doesn't know about me.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 12:32 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • I kissed someone else while we were dating.

    Answer by Busimommi at 12:47 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Plenty of things, no one needs to know EVERYTHING about a person.

    Answer by jonellg at 1:06 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • No I had a pretty boring life. I met hubs when I was 19-- so he pretty much knew all there was to know by the time we got married 2 yrs later.

    The only thing I hide from hubs and the kids is chocolate! If I did not hide my stash of chocolate they would eat it all up and I would be left with empty wrappers.....

    Answer by MizLee at 1:26 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • my DF knows pretty much everything. our first date we talked about our views on marriage, how to raise children, etc. so we have maintained an open communication between us. im an open person any way though. but he knows all my dirty secrets. unlike my exes, he doesnt throw anything in my face either :) im sure that makes it easier to tell him things lol

    Answer by Arretsmomma5 at 1:41 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • hahahah IM A PLAYER, IM A

    Answer by krazi_beautyful at 2:05 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • I never intentionally kept things from him, but I'm sure there are things I left out HAHA

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 9:11 AM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Not a thing, not even my chocolate lol.

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 9:58 AM on Mar. 24, 2011