My dh is asleep and dosent have a clue but my 18 year old dd who is a senior in highschool said she was going to work tonight and I get a facebook messege at 10:40 saying that she isnt coming back but she will finish school. We have always had a good relationship or so I thought. She said she was always trying to please me and she hasnt been who she truly is around me. Im not that strict of a mom and all I have asked is she does her best. Im sick to my stomache and need some words of encouragement. Has anyone else dealt with this she wont say where she is.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:37 AM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Adult Children (18+)
I hope she changes her mind and comes home. Even if she doesn't right away, I hope that she'll keep in touch. Let her know how deeply hurt, worried, and confused you are about the situation. Always try to keep the lines of communication open no matter how painful. I'm going through a painful relationship or lack of with my 23 year old daughter (my only daughter) so I feel your pain. Be grateful if she at least stays in contact with you and don't push her. Mine lives at home, but cares about nothing or anybody but herself. I've tried and tried to communicate, but she wants no part of it. So all I do is pray and pray; prayer is a powerful force. Good luck, Rosie
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