I have been sleeping with my best friends brother for over a yr now and have fallen for him. My best friend doesn't no. At first it was just sex and if he wasn't staying the night we wouldn't touch each other but now he comes over with his sister more and doesn't stay all the time but touches me anyway. How can I turn this into a relationship? And with out asking him what signs could I be looking for to see if it's not just sex anymore so I don't look like a complete fool?
I am marring my only casual friend with benefits this June. We where just friends with benefits for 6 months and it did not turn into more until I took him a bar and introduced him as a friend. He got mad I followed him to ask him why and he said well we are no longer friends. We got into a fight that turned into us being in a relationship. So it can happen, but normally one of you has to be the bigger person and admit to having feelings. There is a chance the feelings are not going to be returned and there is a chance that he has not said anything because he is just as scared of the reaction as you are. You will never know unless you try.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:29 AM on Mar. 24, 2011
You have been sleeping with him for a year and it has not gone to a serious relationship yet? It never will.
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