I am so aggrevated right now. Hubby and I have been going through this bs for years. We seem fine, he says he's not happy, I used to be upset but now I just told him if he isn't happy he should separate and find out what he wants. Then he gets mad because he said he can't he'll lose his job, kid, and everything else he's worked for. I say fine then just find someone else you want to be with and we'll stop our relationship (most of the time we're more like friends anyway) . He says he can't because that's cheating. I would otherwise be fine with all of this but he CONSTANTLY tells me how unhappy he is and says he isn't directing it towards me but it feels like it. He thinks he's just not supposed to be married and Cannot be happy. (I'm #3 by the way) i seriously doubt you can ever be happy if you think that you never will. He says he doesn't want to be married but he loves me and I haven't done anything wrong, wtf? How can I not take that personally, I'm who he's married to! It makes me so mad, I can't do anything to satisfy him or help our situation, we've been to counseling, we've gotten back into church, it's not working, financially and schedule-wise with our kids, we cannot make it if we don't live in the same house. What the hell am I supposed to do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:58 AM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Relationships
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