Basically he acts like a 2 yr old and whines when my kids ( not his) eat all the ice cream or bottled orange crush.
He spends his weekends with the guys ice fishing, never takes me or the kids. I make sure we all are licensed to fish yet every year it goes to waste, because he never takes us with him.
He cooks only for himself and leaves me the mess, he does not lift a finger.
If I ask for help in any area he becomes a 2 yr old and complains and pouts.
Anytime there is money in savings he wants to spend that and leave the money in checking.
He expects my child support to pay for food and utilities and the money he gets should be his to fish and drink and buy gas with.
He refuses to help my teenager with anything like assisting her with learning how to drive. She has a gun permit but he won't take her out shooting.
our tax refund went to his hearts desires.
Everytime I spend money he acts like it is a huge deal but it's okay for him to blow $100 on a weekend fishing.
I do not bother having a voice because he will never see my side. I have already tried. Basically it is his way or he whines and pouts. He does drink alot and acts so flipping bored around the house. He isn't happy unless he is with the guys. which he leaves me for several nights a week. He is rude and when I want him to see things my way or care more he says he, "doesn't give a shit" ... my kids are used to being stuck in the house while he comes and goes and lives his life.. I could go on and on
Asked by Anonymous at 12:10 PM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Relationships
I would kick his ass to the curb. You already have children, why take on another one. He sounds selfish and inconsiderate and I wouldn't want someone like that around my children period.
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