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Random Question: How to get rid of a baby's daddy?

I mean in your life.. not get rid, rid.

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kaemay

Asked by kaemay at 3:44 PM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Depends. If he is violent, abusive or neglectful you can go the legal route. Otherwise all you can do is say "hey, I don't want you around" and hope that's enough.
    meandrphoto

    Answer by meandrphoto at 3:46 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Go someplace far away.  Work under the table so that your SS can't be tracked.  Make up a fake name.  If I personally needed to do this I would just disappear.

    MrsHouston47302

    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 3:46 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Why would you want to do that?
    mamaada

    Answer by mamaada at 3:47 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Well...get rid of the baby i guess. Dad will always be dad.
    UpSheRises

    Answer by UpSheRises at 3:49 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • move and change number
    kylansmommy09

    Answer by kylansmommy09 at 3:50 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Gee, I was going to say "ask him to change a diaper."

    Sounds like you're looking for something more long term, though...
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:50 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Is he abusive to you or the baby in any way? If he isn't why be so selfish? That is not fair to the baby.
    tiddliwinks

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 3:51 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Why would you want to, that's the father of your child...grow up. It's the babys father...
    MKSers

    Answer by MKSers at 3:52 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • You are never rid of them completely. That is why its important to choose someone stable to have a child with.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 3:54 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • My mom did it. I don't know all the details but she got him to waive all parental rights and responsibilities when I was... 2 I think. She got my name changed to her maiden name and that was that. Never saw him again till I was 17. And to be honest I didn't even want to then. I got ambushed at my job basically.
    If he does sign just remember...no child support. But no visitation or custody either
    Nicoles2LilRams

    Answer by Nicoles2LilRams at 3:55 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

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