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Have you ever been caught?

I would have never imagined my husband knowing that I masterbate myself. This morning he left for work, an hour and a half later he walks into the bedroom. HOW I didn't hear him I don't know. I tried to cover up and make it look like nothing, but he was like laughing to himself and said he never would have thought I did that. How do I face him when he gets home later tonight? Has ANYONE else ever been walk in on/caught??

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:41 PM on Mar. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Yeah but he just joined in.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 7:43 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • My husband used to encourage me to do that. It was not an issue for us. I would do it occasionally but only when I was alone. Later I could tell him better how to please me.

    Answer by zboys at 7:43 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • I have never been caught, but I would ask him to watch tonight- that is how I would handle it.

    Answer by dancinintherain at 7:43 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • I'll bet he thought that was hot and thought about you all day
    No,hasn't happened to me

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:44 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Yeah, turn your humilliation into sex-ay...even if you don't feel it. Ask him if he thought it was sexy, is he in the mood, you were thinking about him all day....make it hot.

    Answer by Saya at 7:56 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Honey, honey, honey - it's normal natural and I make sure my SO walks in on me so he can think about coming home to me when he's gone! Nothing to be ashamed about whatsoever - this could open up a whole new intimacy for you and dh.

    Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 8:19 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • Use it. Men love that. Have him watch and show him what you like.

    Answer by reaandiziesmama at 8:19 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • My LP knows I do, but he has never walked in on me. He would probably laugh too...but honestly, no man would turn down an invite to join in or to find it sexy. I wouldn't be embarrassed. Just tell him he interrupted you this morning and needs to take care of business.

    Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 9:15 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • lol
    i am betting this was the only time you could make yourself have the big O

    i agree, turn it into together fun
    he laughed but he was most definitely thinking about that all day long

    Answer by fiatpax at 9:23 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

  • It's such a natural thing. Just tell him to join you!

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:47 PM on Mar. 24, 2011

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