My ex and I were never married and broke up shortly after I had our son. We can never quite agree on anything so its not surprising that it is hard for us to set up a visitation sched. Our sched so far has been Wed mornings from 8am-1pm, Fridays from 8am-5pm, and saturdays from 12pm-8:30pm. His father has set it up so that he leaves our son with his paternal grandmother on saturdays from 4:30pm until he is picked up. We are putting up with this sched so far because we have not come up with an alternative, but we are both unsatisfied with it. My ex claims he doesn't get to see him much, however giving him to his father during the day for most of the weekend every week I don't get to spend much time with him either. We also disagree about overnights because my ex works overnight on the weekends yet still wants him over the weekend. I disagree with this for two reasons: 1. I think our son is too young to start spending the night, but I'm still flexible as long as his father is there which leads to my second reason: why should our son spent the night if his father is not there?
This situation is a bit frustrating so I could use any type of advice anyone is willing to give. I want my son to spend a fair amount of time with his father, thats important, however I really want some time with him as well.
Answer by Renee3K at 9:02 PM on Mar. 24, 2011
Answer by matthewscandi at 9:11 PM on Mar. 24, 2011
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