I think its a couples job to keep things fresh in the bedroom. Try anything you two feel comfy with doing. Lingerie, toys, fantasies. Why be stuck and bored? I feel communication and talking about what you want or would like to try is a huge thing. I use to be very quiet and never said a thing with my ex about my fantasies and wants. My SO and I are very open about this now and I love it. We have a nice drawer next to the bed full of toys etc that we use. Do we use them all the time? No! But the thing is to have variety and not let it get stale. I am happy to have this type of relationship with my SO. We have a wonderful sex life and still trying new things all the time. Working on certain fantasies now that are not for everyone but I believe what you two do behind your closed doors is your business (baring anything illegal or just plain wrong,lol). If there are things you want to try, say it!! You only live once!!
at 8:32 AM on Mar. 25, 2011