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Cheating technicality question

If you slept with someone while you were dating your future husband(no one proposed yet) is it considered as terrible as if you cheated on him while you were married?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:08 PM on Nov. 26, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • ummm YA!!!

    Answer by Kenzies_momma at 1:12 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • It is still cheating...married or not..
    Is it considered as terrible....???? either way it is not right...

    Answer by Dannee at 1:13 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • its bad...but nothing I would bring up now!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • Yes it's cheating. You were in a relationship. Flip the tables around. There's your answer.

    Answer by JCRestoredme at 1:31 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • cheating is cheating matter before or after.

    Answer by YanniSmoMMy at 1:41 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • Yes, cheating is cheating but I think cheating on a b/f isn't as bad as cheating on a husband!

    Answer by AshJoe05 at 1:46 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • It's still cheating. But I have to disagree with the others that it's the same level of cheating. When you're married you have made a 100% commitment to monogamy. In a committed relationship, it's still a shitty thing to do and dishonest, but in marriage there are additional commitments and expectations - in my experience, the nature of the relationship is very different. If you were just not sure or scared of commitment, to me that's different than telling someone you'll be with them forever and not meaning it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • if you were just dating but not committed to either one i don't think it's cheating but i think it's a bit slutty. i mean if your dating your allowed to date other guys so really what is the difference if your seeing some other guys but adding sex to equation.

    Answer by melody77 at 2:38 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • If you are in a relationship (married or not) it's cheating.

    Answer by lilmomma4 at 5:54 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

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