I am getting married June 11. XH has our dd that weekend. I need to ask him for her the day of and then the next week, he can keep her while I am gone.(he has kept her during business and vacation trips before).
The problem is...We only got divorced Feb 2010. (haters move on...you don't know my life) AND, XH and I got married on June 6 so this may be raw for him.
We do get along better now than we ever did and we both agree that being together was fun but we jointly agree that we are glad it is over. However, I know that this will be a sore subject since I am marrying someone else. (I would invite him but I know that would go over like a lead balloon and hurt his pride or seem like I am throwing it up in his face).
How to start this conversation? "Would you let me have Dd on June 11 and then keep her the next week" will certainly bring up the Why factor so should I just put it out there first or...?
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