I am confused as hell right now. I am married but my marriage is in a horrible place. I am only staying because I have no where to go, no family, no friends, no money, I have nothing. I cant force my kids to leave on the streets because daddy and mommy can't work things out. I am still very good friends with my first love. He is also married, but he's unhappy as well. But he stays because he's wife is pregnant. Yes, our spouses know we are still friends.
My ex is the only guy that has ever made me feel good about myself, that treated me right. I think back and try to remember the last time I was truly happy (besides when it comes to my kids) and it's always memories of him.
I don;t know, I guess I am finally at the lowest point of my life right now. I am not happy at all. I hate being in this marriage but it isn't as easy getting out as everyone says it is. We are playing with the idea with friends with benefits, we both admit we still have feeling for each other. We are truly soul mates that just didnt stay with each other and didnt end up with each other. I dont know what to do right now. Being with him sounds so great and tempting but I can't do it. I can't ruin a marriage on top of me wanting out of my own marriage. I guess I just need advice. We've been friends for 10 years and I don't think i could live without him in my life. He's has always been there for me . He was there when I went through the worse times of my life. I need advise ladies on what to do. I am not going to sleep with him and I told him that I said I want us both out of our marriage before I would want anything to happen between us.
We broke up because of me. I was feelign confused and wanted to branch out a little bit. Try to find myself. Find the person I was without him. We started dating when we were preteens and close to adulthood. I thought I loved my husband when we got pregnant and married but I am unsure now. My ex never treated me bad.
My husband refuses to seek counseling. Thinks there is nothing wrong with our relationship when I continue to tell him there is a lot wrong.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:50 PM on Mar. 25, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by kylansmommy09 at 4:53 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:54 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
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Answer by sugarsmom2 at 5:09 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by -LovingMamma- at 5:13 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Staying for the kids is a hard reason to be there I know I have done it for ten years. I would ask myself how this helps them and like I did I went back to school and started working. To be able to leave now I go back to school for welding and will be certified in nine months. You should take some time and think how you could make it happen if your not happy and move on. Make a plan go back to school get a pt job anything that can help you?
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:20 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
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Answer by wanderingmuse at 10:32 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
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