ok so as i mentioned in my last post my husband was killed in a car accident 3 weeks ago during the first two weeks my mother in law stayed with me and the girls then she went back to her house (2 hours away) the week of the funerel ok so that last time i saw her was last friday at the funerel
now heres some background info:before my husband passed he was a HUGE momas boy he worked far out by his moms house so he would go over there for his lunch break and every other weekend me him and the girls would go spend the weekend at his moms house his mom absolutley adores the girls and she loves to spend time with them well she called me today and this is how it went
MIL:Hey im going to be in town today visiting your mom me and her had planned to do lunch this afternoon and i was woundering can i get the girls after they get out of school since i haven't saw them since last week
me:there out of school they have been out all week on spring break and im sorry but we have plans this afternoon how long are you going to be out here?maybe i can bring them by to see you
MIL:Whatt?/they have been out all week and you didnt tell me?they could have spent all week with me who has been watching them while you were at work?
me:me well lonnie (my 6 year old)has been with my mom and my sister all week my sister had her baby so shes been over there enjoying the baby with them & Kaljah (my 8 year old)has been going with me to work
MIL:What?Omg you know i would have kept the girls for you now im upset i really wanted to see them what exactly are your plans for today? because i can wait until your done and maybe i can take the girls back home with me for the weekend and then i"ll bring them back down Sunday morning?
me:i have things to do, and they cant come this weekend Kaljah (my 8 year old) is going with her grandma on her dads side this weekend and Lonnie (my 6 year old) is going with her god mother this weekend but if your coming down Sunday Morning i can make arrangements to get them back Saturday night and then Sunday we can all go have Breakfast together maybe the whole family can come,what time are you coming down on Sunday?
MIL: (yelling) Ugg you know what just forget it its obvious you guys don't have time for me anymore i want to still have a relationship with my grand daughters but i don't see how i can do that if you always have there schedules booked up so just call me when your NOT too busy and then we can plan something
me:it isnt like that we do have time for you but im just trying to keep the girls busy and they have had these weekend plans since tuesday
MIL:Whatever just leave me to Die alone without ever seeing my grandaughters again thats your plan isnt it?
me:NO NOT AT ALL i dont even know why you would say such a thing!!
MIL:WHATEVER (Hangs up in my face)
is she over reacting orr what?
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