I have refused to allow anyone in the room with my first two children, but LP is really insistent about being present this time. I feel guilty for not wanting him there, and feel like I'm obligated to let him watch the birth of at least one of his children LOL
I just feel like if I am crapping and puking and in pain, that the last thing I want is to be touched and have a witness to it. Everyone else thinks I'm nuts...and I know my mother is hurt that I have never let her in there. I definitely don't want this to turn into a spectator sport.
IDK. I suppose everyone else has someone in there to witness the "miracle" but were you embarrassed? Did you wonder what you looked like with your legs being held up grunting? It is on my mind, ladies! LOL
Answer by DusterMommy at 9:43 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by SkylaReneeMom at 9:46 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 9:47 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by dustbunny at 9:47 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 10:21 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 9:41 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
There is no way I would have denied my husband a chance to be there when his children were born. It take two to make them, you should both be there for them the second they are born. I was not embarrassed by him being there... I was more bothered by the possibility of strange hospital staff coming in and out then the person who helped my conceive the child!!! I feel so bad for the father, that must suck to not be able to be there for his babies. ;o(
Answer by Crafty26 at 9:47 PM on Mar. 25, 2011
Next question overall
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How do you guys spend your freetime after the kiddos go to sleep?