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Do you and your dh/so sleep apart or together

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Asked by alotleft2do at 1:22 AM on Mar. 26, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Snuggled up together ♥

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:23 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • cuddled up together

    Answer by mamawilbur at 1:24 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • me and my 1st dh was all snugggle bunnies and I swear it is what kept us together for 8 yrs. lol

    Comment by alotleft2do (original poster) at 1:25 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • Depends on the day of the week. Since I am up at 3AM M-F, and he is incapable of going BACK to sleep when awakened, we sleep separately Sun-Thurs nights.

    But for us, separate beds when needed has been a marriage saver. We can't really cuddle because of his back, he steals covers and snores and I've started to as well.

    22 years together.. and I think it's because we're flexible.

    Answer by gdiamante at 1:31 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • When the hot flashes start I head for the spare bedroom. We both get a good nights sllep then plus I can turn on my little fan :) We've been married 28yrs so it's really no big deal for us.

    Answer by Kathy675 at 1:36 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • We generally sleep together. I fall asleep on the couch sometimes, though.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 1:41 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • we usually start out together until MY snoring drives him to another room, LOL

    Answer by ElenaC419 at 1:42 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • Sometimes we do.He works 3rd shift,so he's not always home.Lately,I've been having a hard time sleeping at night,so sometimes we'll cuddle up together during the day while the kids are at school.

    Answer by m0m23b0ys458 at 2:06 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • Together but....Not touching I get way too hot. If we had a usable spare bedroom you better believe I would head there when he got to snoring or during the week when he would go there when he got home from work (2nd shift)

    Answer by Opie99 at 2:39 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • Together, but he snores so loud I've woken up and slept in the guest room.

    Answer by Cosetterose at 3:09 AM on Mar. 26, 2011

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