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why is achild wont leson to there moms and will lesson to a man

my child will lesson me a man before he will lesson to me i need to no what i can do

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brooklynn21331

Asked by brooklynn21331 at 7:04 PM on Nov. 26, 2008 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • He probably just can't understand you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • Are you consistent with expectations and discipline?
    BlueFrogMama

    Answer by BlueFrogMama at 7:22 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • He doesnt want a lesson he wants to listen instead?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:11 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • Because your his mom! I know sounds stupid, my ds was the same way they always are the worst with mom, and it was frustrating that he listened to everyone but me and everyone said "because your his mom" and I hated it . Now I say it to others, because it is true for most kids! BTW there was no solution, just kind of outgrew it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Nov. 26, 2008

  • huh?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:42 AM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • Seriously, go back to school and learn how to spell and speak properly before asking a question on here. Just trying to read your question gave me a headache.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:29 PM on Nov. 28, 2008

  • And you ma'am Anonymous are plain *rude*! If reading her question gave you so much headache, why bother replying? Just to chastise, to insult her English? What do you expect to accomplish by putting her down instead of addressing her real concern? Shame on you! The poor woman is trying to reach out for help for goodness sake! She's not here in this forum to learn English. If you cannot infer anything out of her question, then it's your bad.

    To OP, I am sorry you had to endure such rudeness. It would forever be in my conscience if I didn't say anything about the particular anonymous answer.

    To your question, OP, perhaps you could talk to somebody at your church, or health services. They may be able to assist you in working out the best techniques to bring out the best of your child :)
    justfiel

    Answer by justfiel at 12:06 AM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • Another thing, OP, there are tons of great 'how to raise your child' groups around here in Cafemom. You might find somebody who share your experience in those groups. Here are few links to the groups :

    http://www.cafemom.com/group/39945
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/336/
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/353/
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/3326/
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/25721/

    Hope you find some support you need in these groups. Good luck!
    justfiel

    Answer by justfiel at 12:23 AM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • Here are some suggestions http://www.pbs.org/parents/talkingwithkids/
    Hope it helps
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 12:36 AM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • Also my son who is 6, listens to me, but will listen more to his father. I sometimes have to repeat myself more than once while with his father its always heard on the first time. I noticed he does this with his martial arts instructor and his Uncles.
    Also my brothers did this, as well as myself ; ) to our Mother. Something about a father's voice....not sure if its the case with every child, but it was for myself and my siblings. ; )
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 12:39 AM on Nov. 30, 2008

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