I am married for 8 years. My husbaned is nice and all he want is for us to be happey. We have 3 kides, 7,6,and 3 year old. The thing is my husbaned love kides like any father. And he car alotttt about them, and he play and lugh with them, but when he yelled at them they will "shocked and they get afraid" sometime he will yell at them or will scream at them. My problem I get sooooo irreted when he does that. I tell my self that he yelled at them for not big deal. And sometime I tell my self that sometime I do the same thing I yelled at them for no big reasen.
why I feel it is not the same when I yelled at them than when he yelled at them?
I am not sure why I get irretited?
Mybe because the kides get scared if he yelled at them or maybe ...... I am not sure why?
Do I am wrong to be irrtited or no?
Answer by kayslay at 1:54 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by zoejains_momma at 1:55 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 1:56 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Yelling is NOT a good tool. Discipline is a form of teaching and children tune out to the lesson when they are yelled at. You can VERY easily discipline a child with out raising your voice. Perhaps some child rearing classes or books to help you come up with alternatives to yelling.
BTW... a bit off topic, but maybe not.... are you hearing impaired? The flow of your post (the way it is written) seems as if you could be hearing impaired... similar grammatical errors that a hearing impaired or esl person would make. could this be contributing to the issue?
Answer by Anonymous at 1:58 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by Carrie131 at 1:58 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by tazdvl at 4:25 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by wifey000175554 at 8:14 PM on Mar. 26, 2011
Answer by Pnukey at 12:42 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
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